Where do I go from here?

How come we always want the things we can't have? If we're in school, we want to get out, if we have a low paying job, we want one that pays more. I truthfully just don't know where to go from this point. It's been over a year since I graduated from college and now I'm ready to go back and it's not in my immediate future. It could take years before I am able to go back. The truth is, I just don't know who I am without school in my life. I know it sounds ridiculous but, funnily enough, school was what got me through the hardest part of my life. When I went through an emotionally troublesome time, I found solace in writing and literature. I love English and I love being in an environment where I talk about literature, where I have to write papers- I just love being in school. It makes me feel like myself.
If you read my blogs, you know that I complain alot about how hard things are for Robert and I financially. Right now we live with my parents, which is really generous of them and they take good care of us, but we're married and ready to start our life together in our own place. I'm stuck in a situation where I can either choose to live at home for several more months, or Robert and I could move out this year, but I may not be able to go back to school for a long, long time.
They say after planning a wedding, you lament over not having to plan a wedding. Well, for me, I lament over not writing papers and reading books. I feel empty and honestly, aside from how happy I am to be married and for how lucky I am just to be with Robert everyday, this past year and a half has been one of the most miserable years I've ever endured because it's the first time I've not been in school.
I suppose this is one of those moments I go from being a child to an adult. Where I have to acknowledge that sometimes, you can't always get what you want, and that when you're just starting out in life, you have to take what you can get. It sounds negative, and truthfully, I've always been such a positive person. But right now, I'm struggling to be positive.

Feeling like myself again

I'm finally researching what it will take for me to get back into grad school. It's funny because up until this point I haven't felt like myself. The moment that returning to school came back into the horizon, I'm feeling more like the person I know I am. What is good about that is now I know that I'm heading in the right direction career wise. Before when I'd choose a new job it just never felt right. If I wasn't stressed, I found myself struggling to want to go to work. But with school I'm itching to go back- in-fact, I'm already trying to work on a paper that I hope to turn into a thesis when the time comes. The only bad side is, I'm terrified I'll start researching grad school and realize it's not something I can afford to do. I'm counting on financial aid and scholarship options, but from my understanding thats much harder for grad students. Then there's the GRE. . . and all I can say about that is I'm an English major for a reason. The math just might kick my behind. Why they have to test you so many times before you can go to school is beyond me anyways. But I'm hopeful this is the start of my return to school. I am beyond ready!